Feng Shui Concepts
Find, Ignite and Kindle Your Love
By Jenny T. Liu, M.A.
As a feng shui master, I encounter many clients with similar issues regarding their love life, so rest assured you are not alone if you have problems in love! Finding the right person, unrequited love, financial imbalances, and temptation are issues that come up all the time. In hindsight, people often realize they looked for love in the wrong place at the wrong time and for the wrong reasons.
There are many types of relationship issues and just as many ways to solve them. You can talk things out with your partner or seek a counselorís advice; however, until you understand who you are first, you cannot expect others to help solve the problem.
Ultimately, your happiness in a relationship comes down to your perception of yourself and life. Using the principles of feng shui, you have the ability to transform your perceptions and reinforce your love.
An effective way to begin transforming your perceptions is determining whether your feng shui supports or challenges you and your relationship. This can be done with the help of your birth chart. From ancient all the way up to modern times, astrological natal charts have been used to accurately and objectively provide awareness of who we are and our life purpose.
One of the highest forms of astrology is known as the Zi Wei Do Shu, which reveals the type of love relationships that may come into your life. Every relationship stems from a karmic bond between two people. The strength of the karmic bond often determines the intensity and endurance of the relationship.
The Zi Wei Do Shu can identify karmic bonds, allowing you to know which relationships to focus on and which to let go or avoid. Knowing the strength and timing of your karmic bonds can help you make adjustments in your perception and attract a compatible partner.
In some circumstances, your birth chart will reveal that the reason for a failed or challenging relationship is because a love relationship is not where you should be placing your energy and time at the moment.†Your energy for positive love could be when you are in your 20ís, 30ís, 40ís, 50ís, or older. This knowledge allows you to reprioritize your efforts during dry spells or gain closure in a bad relationship.
Your environment is often overlooked as something that can impact your relationship. Sometimes, it is not you but the feng shui of your home that creates obstacles. If your feng shui is incompatible to you or has weak energy for attracting or maintaining love relationships, adjustments need to be made. Your Zi Wei Do Shu birth chart can show you the compatible orientations, colors, elements, numerology, and symbols to incorporate into your life to balance and enhance your love relationship.
Aside from understanding yourself and your feng shui, focused meditation is a highly-effective way to strengthen the bond between two people. Through disciplined practice with visualization, mantra charms, mantra chanting, and mudras, you can use your mind power to send subconscious messages to your love partner.
Be aware that the effectiveness is based on your level of mind power and the karmic bond between you and your partner. Even the most powerful meditations are limited in power if there is no karmic bond between the two of you. Once you enter marriage, your love must often expand beyond the other person as you marry into their family and perhaps grow your own.†Your love may be tested and challenged by those around you.
To counteract or prevent challenges, special mantras and mudras can be practiced every morning to enhance the peace and love between all family members. There are also mantras that increase eloquence so that when you speak, your intentions are clear and appealing to others. Strengthening the bond between husband and wife is of utmost importance.
Focus on coming together without conflicts and power struggles. Learn to be humble with each other, appreciate one anotherís unique energy, and cultivate forgiveness. Make effort to communicate using your spouseís language of love and pay attention to what they respond to and understand.†
Sometimes the best expression comes through action rather than words.†When it is difficult to verbalize your thoughts or needs to your spouse, or they donít seem to hear, use meditation and mantras to send your message and avoid arguments.†
Reinforce your love bond with your spouse during intimacy by sending them subconscious confirmations and messages of your love. Align your chakras together and chant a love mantra while sending your message and visualizing your combined aura growing strong.†
Continue this throughout your marriage and your love will deepen and strengthen day by day and year by year.†Negative attitudes and emotions will release and naturally transform into mutually fulfilled and balanced love
Master Jenny Liu holds a Bachelors Degree in Environmental Design from UC Berkeley and a Masters Degree in Architecture from UCLA. She is an expert in Feng Shui who shares her knowledge through consultations, seminars, periodicals, and the internet. For more information, see Liu-Fengshui.com