Re-Imagining the Holidays
6 Ways to Resist the Trap of Overabundance
By Sara Wiseman
dreading it, already? You know... the whole shopping - gifting - cooking -
cleaning - eating - drinking - socializing - relatives - traveling season just
Thanksgiving to New Year’s, many of us get trapped in a cycle of overabundance — the state of having too much. The cup not just
full, but over flowing.
worse in recent years, starting with Christmas decorations that go on display
at Halloween to the frenzy of Black Friday. We’ve become a culture of excess
and a society of waste, moving from the next new thing to the next... without
ever taking the time to enjoy any of it. We have so much, and it’s arriving so
fast, we can’t use or even experience it all.
overabundance — having more than we really need
— creates stress, lowers vibration and zaps energy from mind, body and spirit. Now, I am all for abundance! I am certainly not one to pass up anything that brings pleasure
beauty or connection to my life.
But when we become trapped in the cycle of overabundance — that endless circle of want, get, want, get — our lives fall out of balance.
Six ways overabundance causes holiday
holidays, overabundance shows up in different forms. It’s not just eating rich foods or
excessive gifts, as you’d
expect, but less obvious ways as well. Here are six areas where overabundance can create stress in your life:
Overabundance of food
Rich, sweet, fatty holiday food lowers your physical vibration, which affects mind and spirit too.
If you work in an office or with a group of people, it’s hard to escape sweets in
the break room! Alcohol
from frequent social events adds to this mix. Don’t worry about weight gain —
instead, be focused on the energetic signature of the food you eat. Is it
processed? Will it make you feel good? Does your body really want it? Pay
attention, and don’t let the season of indulgence lower your vibration.
Overabundance of gifts
The cycle of
shopping, buying, wrapping, giving, receiving... can be very stressful, even if budget is not a concern. The sheer energetic reality of involving ourselves with objects or “stuff” can be
overwhelming, especially when we understand that every object has its own frequency, vibration or
energetic signature depending on where it came from, how it was made, who made it and so forth… this is a lot of
new energy to add to your
energy as you decide how or if you will give and receive gifts this year.
Consider your energy if you decide to do without, do less, give experiences, or give to charity instead. Once you
break the gift cycle, you’ll be surprised how free you feel.
3. Overabundance of socializing
parties, school events, the annual party you’ve gone to every year for ten
years... All of this has a certain clamor of “must attend” attached to it, when in reality, you can change plans, opt out or do something different. Don’t rely on what you’ve
always done — you’re a new person now, and you may want to try something
different. Reassess every year. Introverts especially may need lots of private
time during this season; give yourself the gift of quiet and solitude.
Overabundance of family relationships
saying: you can’t go home again. And yet every holiday season, most of us
continue to swim up river to our birthing place. Many times, the wounds, past
hurts and misunderstandings are still there. Understand that family karma
complex, and the stress of the holidays makes it more so. Be gentle with yourself and others. Have an exit strategy if things go
awry. If it’s just too much, opt out and try again another time.
5. Overabundance of tradition
you’ve always done it a certain way, doesn’t mean that you have to do it that way now. This might include: going to a certain event, party, gathering,
service. Wearing certain clothes, decorating a certain way, being with certain
people. Break free from the rigid traditions you’ve “always done” and see what
else the Universe might have up its sleeve for you!
Overabundance of group thought
We’ve all seen what fear-based
beliefs can do to collective thought: hate, violence, financial ruin and war are
all products of low-vibration thinking. During the holidays, mindless
consumption is the culprit: everyone is stressing out on want, get, want, get. This creates enormous stress, and when this is
done in the collective, everyone feels it.
Instead, connect to your higher self, God/One/All/Divine/Source —
frequently and deeply. Use Thanksgiving and Solstice as markers for the season
— times when you can easily dip into gratitude and joy.
teacher & intuitive Sara Wiseman is the author of six insightful books on
spirituality and intuition, including her new book, Living a Life
of Gratitude: Your Journey to Grace, Joy and Healing. She hosts the popular radio show Ask Sara, and is a top contributor to DailyOM. She has
released four healing music CDs with her band Martyrs of Sound. Visit Sara online